MY CIRCLE OF COURAGE

........MY CIRCLE OF COURAGE.......
In order to be a leader, you must act from unconditional love. In order to act through love, you must first love yourself. In order to love yourself, you must first love your actions. In order to love your actions, you must first love your feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. In order to love your feelings, thoughts, and behaviors, you must first love your qualities, character, and values. In order to love your values, you must first live by your values. In order to live by and love your values, you must first be caring, compassionate, forgiving, grateful, honest, loyal, dependable, and understanding. When you live and love yourself in this way, then you naturally become a leader because others will love you also!_Kelli Patterson

Friday, August 28, 2015

THE JOURNEY TOWARDS MY DREAMS HAS BEEN A LONG HARD ONE!


To all the lovers all over the World......................

I am reaching out to ask for your support in a project that is very dear to my heart, a dream that I truly believe that God wants me to fulfill. I am hoping that you will take the time to read this email and be willing to meet with me, in person, so that I can explain to you how your assistance in my mission can have a huge impact on one small village in Uganda.
 

I have been working in the social services field (juvenile system, group homes, CYS, and, currently for a domestic violence and sexual assault shelter). I love to volunteer for any organization that allows me to connect with others and make a positive difference in others’ lives. I have volunteered as a teen mentor, for soup kitchens, holidays in homeless shelters, building projects and many others, and very much enjoy being able to help to support anyone who needs a helping hand.

 

I have but two goals in life, to travel and see all of God’s natural and beautiful creations, and to serve others in the process. This has caused me to want to follow my own vision and mission while fulfilling the goals that I believe that God has put me on this Earth for, to serve, support, and uplift others.

 

A few years ago, I began teaching myself and attempting to start up my own non-profit because I believed that this was the only way to gain financial backing that would allow me to follow through on my dreams. These goals were put on hold while I cared for my mother who was dying of stage four lung cancer. Her death fueled my passion and, shortly after her death, I began pursuing my dreams once again. I educated myself on what it takes to obtain non-profit status in the business world, doing tons of research and reaching out to mentors and others who could assisted me in the process. I ran myself in circles and gave up many times because it was very daunting  for just one girl (myself), to be able to accomplish  in order to gain the knowledge, legal assistance, persons, and resources to become 501c3 exempt.  Without being able to apply for grants and donors due to not obtaining 501c3 status, again, my dream went on hold. The third time that I attempted to fulfill my dream, I went out into the local community where I was living in West Virginia, seeking donations for a fundraising event that would allow me to auction off things, such as, dinners at local restaurants, fun activities (such as bowling tickets, concert tickets, skating passes, arts and crafts, etc.). Although the local community was very supportive, with over 10 local businesses donating certificates and items, the process was very slow moving and I realized that I was not going to gain the financial assistance that I needed to back my project. Again, my dream seemed unattainable and my passion was put on hold.

 

My next “bright idea” to following my dreams was to earn the money for my project through my own saving and hard work; however, in order to do so, it would mean that I would have to move up the ladder in my position (which I believe myself capable of doing) into admin roles that were much better paying. The only problem with this idea is, although I would eventually make more money and be able to save for the Katosi village project, it would mean that I would have to give up my role of working in direct services with my clients. I know, in my heart, that I want to work right alongside those individuals to whom I serve; therefore, even though I would make more money, I would miss the connection and relationships that I currently build with those I serve. Once again, I am discouraged and cannot see a clear path to realizing my dreams.

 

At this time, I am attempting to realize my dreams once again, which is why I am reaching out to all of you. I am hoping that by reaching out to the local churches in the area and people all over the world, explaining my project and mission, and offering you any time or services that I have to give back, that you will allow me a few moments of your time to meet with you (in person or by phone) and explain how a small act of kindness from each church in the area can have the ability to, not only help me to realize my dreams, but to change the future of a small fishing village in Uganda for many generations to come.

 

I am praying that I can get each local church in the area and people who wish to make a difference in the world to agree to sponsor one woman from the Katosi Village in obtaining training that will allow her to gain a sustainable skill, sewing, that will allow them to provide for their village. The Katosi village is currently overran by the many orphans who have been left to these few women by parents who have died from the HIV virus, a huge epidemic in the area that is currently growing. There are over 100 + orphans and only a handful of women to care for and provide for these children. Once these women are taught the skill of sewing and obtain their own sewing machine, they will be able to provide clothing to everyone in their village, as well as to provide nearby uniforms to a school in the area that is willing to trade their services for educational programs to teach the village’s many orphans. Also, by gaining the resources for the trade of sewing, they will be able to provide food for the many orphans by exchanging garments and clothes for fish and other food items to local markets and fishermen. As these orphans gain schooling, they will be able to gain even more knowledge and skills to support their village, helping to make it sustainable, as well as the knowledge to help to protect them from the AIDS virus and the many other health concerns that are preventable.

 

As you see, if I am able to get approximately 20 women sponsored for a sewing machine and training, we have the ability to change the fate of this village forever. If each church were willing to sponsor one woman ($300.00), we can all come together and change the entire future of this village. This donation would not be a hand out, but rather, and offer of love and hope that has the ability to create healthier individuals, sustainability, and, more importantly, hope in our fellow mankind. Your $300.00 donation, half of a month’s rent for many of us, will provide a life changing event in these women and children’s lives.

 

Besides the opportunity that this money will provide for these women and village, I hope to use my skills as a writer and journalist to document every step in this journey with hopes of inspiring people all over the world that, by uniting for a common purpose, the sky is the limit and any dream can be accomplished. I want to share my failures on this journey, my hard work, tears, and sweat, my fears and doubts in myself, and how I overcame all of them in order to inspire and motivate others who have a calling to serve God because I truly believe that a life with purpose means a life of gratitude and joy.  I also hope to mentor, and share my knowledge, skills, and resources to equip others with what it takes to accomplish their goals and dreams. I want to share our story with the World and do everything within my power to see to it that others have the same love, support, and resources to follow their dreams so that we can prove that one small act of kindness can have a tremendous and positive ripple effect that will touch lives all over the world. And, most of all, I am hoping that my story will inspire others to never give up on their dreams and to face their fears because, if you can envision it, there is a way to make their dreams a reality!  

 

With that being said, I truly hope that you will at least give me the opportunity to meet in person  or discuss the project by phone and explain the good work that am hoping to do in the Katosi Village. With your open mind and ears, I hope to prove to you that your good will and support will allow this village to grow and thrive, while giving me the opportunity to visit the village and to teach and support these women and children. I plan to visit the village and deliver the good news, in person on a mission trip with Step UP Uganda. During this trip, I will live, work, and grow alongside them. I plan to teach them everything I know (from medical and health, to psychology and counseling, standard education, agriculture, proper hygiene, AIDs awareness and prevention, and even how to play and have fun).

 

For $300.00, a drop in the bucket for a large church/some individuals, we can unite, people and churches to prove that, together, anything is possible, no matter what laws, guidelines, or obstacles stand in the way. Those many drops in the bucket from each church can provide a river of love and inspiration that can touch the lives of those from the USA to Africa!

 

If you would like to learn more about my mission OR would like to sponsor the project, you can do so at:


 

I very much appreciate your time in reading this heartfelt post and hope that you will give me the opportunity to show you that how, by working together, we can achieve the impossible, reach the ends of the Earth, and touch many lives!

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